he hasn't bought anything for me. When your husband doesn't care about your feelings, what it means is that he doesn't love you as before or even a little bit anymore. This is the case in my marriage. My husband often does not know what is in our bank account, flies off on work, spends a large amount of money on dinner and drinks, and then leaves me scrimping on grocery bills. He also spent his extra time with friends. Football, fav foods, etc. He spends all his money on what he wants to. My personal spending is limited and all my savings will one day benefit my wife and me in the form of a smaller … He doesn’t spend time with you. "I think you can tell a lot about a person by the way they handle their money." But my husband and I have found a beautiful compromise for this dilemma — we have established … I noticed he was getting closer with his female ex-colleague who was trying to leave an abusive husband. It doesn’t matter if my husband is spending $50 or $5,000, what matters is are we in agreement in principle of what he is buying or spending on. 11. I grew up abroad by one Igbo/ one Ijaw parent and my husband grew up in south east before he came to study here in Lithuania. I completed my … My husband does not give me any money. For example my husband loves tech gadgets, just the other day he came and sat next to me and said I need $130 to buy a new hard drive. "In my husband's case, it was such an issue that it was good that he communicated it so that I understood," says Pam. I have been with my BF for almost 9 months and have spent a lot of money on odds and ends thoughtfully depending on the events i.e. At the end of each month, if we spent less than we made, we take a percentage of that amount of money to be our spending money in the next month. He prefers to spend his money on his children and in face likes to direct our life toward his family and they tolerate me. He was alone for … Signs My Husband Doesn’t Love Me Anymore – If your spouse prefers to spend time before the computer, examining a guide or going out with colleagues or friends to get a beer, you almost certainly have a problem. My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Ijeoma2008: 9:19pm; Dear Nairaland, I know this place can be vicious and also insightful so please take it easy on me! My husband and I have a fun way to keep ourselves within our budget by using a reward system. For example, if we made $400 more than we spent, we each get $40 to spend as fun money … It's as simple as that. Yes, I have a reluctance to spend more than $35 on a dinner, I hate spending $10 on a cocktail, and flying to the other coast for a weekend seems extravagant to me, but it’s not like I’m spending the money on myself. He and his former wife were married 43 years before she passed away with lung cancer. Your feelings represent your state of mind at any point in time and anyone that doesn't care about them doesn't care about you; it doesn't matter if such one is your husband. My husband had been emotionally withdrawing and doesn't initiate sex anymore. He is devorce 3 times.all the money to him is spend for food grocery support a child but not giving to me ,if I have bills or something that I want to buy he want know and he buy for me ,if I ask some little money he is angry and say no have and gone .please give me some advice thank you,my heart trouble and my mind is … Once I got changed and I saw the look of disgust when he saw my belly. One person in the relationship is the spender who enjoys spending money and buying things, while the other person is the saver who wants to pinch pennies and never spend a dime. He stopped drinking and now never buys me wine like he used to (he shared with me). 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